On The Road

You learn a lot when you’re away from home. When your family and friends aren’t so close, that’s when you’re forced to grow. I spent six months north of the U.S. border, just trying to find my way. I had to adjust to the Canadian climate and learn about its environment and people throughout the country. I’ve been on the road. But I’ve picked up some omens along the way.

While Canadians have the stereotype of being nice, just last night I felt the bartender was a bit unpleasant at times. I didn’t like it, but it made me realize the nature of people at times. You'll run into those who may not leave the best taste in your mouth. This is a fact for wherever you are.

Being on the road has come with its fair share of challenges. For one, I don’t know anyone in Canada. I had no one to turn to or talk to. Making friends over here was tough. I probably made one, which was closer to the end of my six-month stay. Living on my own was tough as well. I had to develop my cooking skills and prioritize more than just a work schedule.

Another thing I learned on the road was how good-hearted people can be. I’ve had locals offer me rides, snacks and information on what to do and see in an area, without me asking them. A week ago I misplaced my phone at the gym. I went around the locker room and the weight room to ask if anyone had seen it. Every single person offered to call my phone. A few people also gave me suggestions on what I could do to find it. This taught me that anyone is capable of opening their heart and offering help in any way they can.

The growth I’ve received from the road has been evident. In the beginning of my travels, I would get extremely anxious or break down if an inconvenience occurred or things didn’t go my way. It’s a continued work in progress, but I no longer act like I can predict the future.

I’ve learned to stay present, go through the tough times, and accept whatever life throws at me. It’s all for your greatest good.

My time on the road has been instrumental to my development. The people I’ve encountered as well as the places I’ve visited have left a long-lasting impact. I can now use this treasure as I continue my journey.